🟠 Expressing Regret and Apologies in Korean (TOPIK 3–4)

Ever felt sorry but didn't know which level of politeness to use? Teacher Hoon explains the deep connection between social hierarchy and apologies in Korea to help you navigate relationships smoothly.

Dog holding a sorry sign representing apology

Why Apologies Matter in Korean Culture (EEAT Tip)

Apologies in Korea are more than just manners; they reflect humility (겸손) and respect (존중). Unlike English, where "sorry" can be used in most situations, Korean requires choosing the right phrase based on social hierarchy. As a teacher with 20 years of experience, I've seen how a well-placed apology can transform a difficult situation.

📖 6 Key Phrases for Regret and Apology

미안해 / 미안해요: Casual/polite. Use with friends, peers, or family.
죄송합니다: Very formal. Essential for the workplace, strangers, or elders.
미안하지만...: "Sorry, but..." Softens the blow of a refusal or bad news.
잘못했어요: "I was wrong." Directly admitting fault; common in personal relationships.
후회해요: "I regret it." Expressing deep personal regret about a past action.
실례합니다: "Excuse me." Used when interrupting or moving through a crowd.

🗣 Practice Dialogue: Missing a Meeting

A (Student): 어제 약속을 못 지켜서 미안해.
(I’m sorry I couldn’t keep my promise yesterday.)

B (Friend): 괜찮아. 다음에 만나면 돼!
(It’s okay. We can meet next time!)

💡 Teacher Hoon's Cultural Insight: Empathy Apologies

In Korea, you might hear "죄송합니다" even when the person isn't at fault. For example, if someone bumps into you on the subway, you might apologize too. This isn't an admission of guilt, but a display of empathy and social harmony (Chemyon). It shows you're a considerate person!

Want to Practice Natural Apologies in Real Conversations?

Apologizing correctly is the ultimate key to integrating into Korean culture. Book a 1:1 session with Hoon on italki, and we'll practice role-playing workplace mistakes and social situations with real-time feedback!

🚀 Master Polite Apologies with Hoon

About the Author:. I've taught students from over 20 countries, focusing on real-life fluency and TOPIK preparation. Let's grow your love for Korea together!

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