๐ Expressing Regret and Apologies in Korean | Beginner Level (TOPIK 1–2)

Ever felt sorry in Korean but didn’t know the right word to use—๋ฏธ์ํด vs ์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค?
In Korean, apologizing and expressing regret are deeply tied to social hierarchy and politeness. In this guide, you’ll learn essential expressions, their nuances, and cultural tips to avoid awkward moments—perfect for TOPIK 3–4 learners.
๐ Table of Contents
- Why Apologies Are Important in Korean Culture
- Key Phrases for Regret and Apology
- Practice Dialogue
- Did You Know?
- Final Thoughts
๐ก Why Apologies Are Important in Korean Culture
Apologies in Korea are more than simple manners—they reflect humility and respect. Whether you bump into someone on the subway or make a mistake at work, choosing the correct phrase is crucial. Unlike English “sorry,” Korean has multiple expressions depending on formality and situation.
Example: In a business email, “์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค” is used, while among friends, “๋ฏธ์ํด” is natural.
๐ Key Phrases for Regret and Apology
1. ๋ฏธ์ํด / ๋ฏธ์ํด์
Sorry (casual/polite) – Used with friends, family, or peers.
2. ์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค
I apologize (formal) – For workplace, strangers, or official contexts.
3. ๋ฏธ์ํ์ง๋ง…
Sorry, but… – Softens a refusal or bad news.
4. ์๋ชปํ์ด์
I was wrong – Admitting fault directly; often used with kids or informal settings.
5. ํํํด์
I regret it – Expresses personal regret about past actions.
6. ์ค๋กํฉ๋๋ค
Excuse me – Used when passing through a crowd or interrupting politely.
๐ฃ Practice Dialogue
A: ์ด์ ์ฝ์์ ๋ชป ์ง์ผ์ ๋ฏธ์ํด.
Eoje yaksogeul mot jikyeoseo mianhae.
I’m sorry I couldn’t keep the promise yesterday.
B: ๊ด์ฐฎ์. ๋ค์์ ๋ง๋๋ฉด ๋ผ.
Gwaenchanha. Da-eum-e mannamyeon dwae.
It’s okay. We can meet next time.
๐งฉ Quick Check: How would you apologize to your boss for being late to work? (Hint: Use the formal form.)
๐ Did You Know?
In Korean culture, apologizing can even occur when you are not at fault. For example, saying “์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค” when someone else bumps into you is common—it shows empathy rather than guilt. This reflects Korea’s collectivist social values.
๐ฆ Final Thoughts
Mastering apology expressions helps you navigate relationships smoothly in Korea, whether at school, work, or with friends. As you progress, try observing how Koreans soften their tone with facial expressions and body language—communication goes beyond words.
I hope that while reading various posts on my blog, you’ll learn Korean and grow to love Korea. As a Korean, I sincerely wish for that. Please come back anytime to discover new expressions and cultural insights!
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