🤝 How to Make Friends in Korea as a Foreigner
Making friends in Korea might feel intimidating at first, especially if you're new to the culture or the language. But don’t worry — with the right mindset and strategies, you can build strong, lasting friendships with Koreans who are often warm and loyal once you break the ice.
📘 Table of Contents
- 1. Why It Feels Hard (at First)
- 2. Understanding Korean Approach to Friendship
- 3. Best Ways to Meet Koreans
- 4. How Learning Korean Helps
- 5. Did You Know?
- 6. Self-Study Tips for Building Confidence
- 7. Want to Learn More Korean?
🙃 1. Why It Feels Hard (at First)
Koreans may seem reserved or formal when you first meet them. This is partly cultural — there’s often a clear boundary between acquaintances and close friends. But once you break through, friendships tend to be deep and loyal.
💬 2. Understanding Korean Approach to Friendship
Friendships in Korea often develop through shared experiences — school, work, hobbies, or food. Unlike casual Western friendships, Korean friendships can feel more intense but also more supportive.
🔑 Tip: Spend time regularly with people and show consistent interest. That’s how trust builds in Korea.
🌏 3. Best Ways to Meet Koreans
- Language exchange apps: HelloTalk, Tandem, or Meetup Korea
- Clubs & Groups: Join hiking clubs, cooking classes, K-pop fan meetups
- University Programs: Many schools host international buddy programs
- Volunteer Events: Help local charities and meet like-hearted people
Don’t be afraid to say hello first. Many Koreans are just as curious about your culture.
🗣️ 4. How Learning Korean Helps
You don’t have to be fluent — even basic Korean shows effort and respect. Learn friendly expressions like:
- 안녕하세요! (Annyeonghaseyo!) – Hello!
- 이름이 뭐예요? (Ireumi mwoyeyo?) – What’s your name?
- 같이 밥 먹을래요? (Gachi bap meogeullaeyo?) – Want to eat together?
These phrases can break the awkwardness and lead to meaningful conversations.
💡 5. Did You Know?
According to a 2022 Seoul survey, more than 80% of foreign residents in Korea said they wanted to make Korean friends, but only 36% said they actually had one. The most common barrier? "I don’t know how to start." Just one conversation can change that.
📚 6. Self-Study Tips for Building Confidence
- Practice common small talk phrases in Korean
- Watch Korean reality shows to learn casual conversation
- Journal your experiences and reflect on cultural moments
🎓 7. Want to Learn More Korean?
Want to connect more naturally with Korean friends? 👉 Book a friendly italki lesson with me here and let’s make Korean learning part of your real-life conversations.
Making friends in Korea might take time — but it’s absolutely worth it. 🌱 Keep smiling, keep trying, and you’ll find your people. Let’s discover more about Korean life together right here on the blog! 😊
